This is Scott from the Understanding Narcissists Youtube channel. He has great information in his videos but I also enjoy his delivery – very organized and calmly spoken.
I watched a great amount of his videos, along with other Youtubers who speak on the subject, around 6 months ago when I was new to the terminology and description of narcissism (although, unfortunately, not to narcissists themselves). Scott remains one of my favourites.
This video of his is called “How Narcissists Live Day to Day”. In it he describes my mother but he is EXACTLY describing my oldest sister. She is a piece of work, that one. My mother you have to walk on eggshells around to avoid raging but my sister you want to take a shower after being around her, the black greasy feeling of evil off of her is that thick. I will write of my sister in the future because I had a run-in with her a few months ago and still haven’t recovered from and it still makes me feel sick to recall the event. I went no-contact with her right after that.
So, here’s the video, I hope the information interests and helps you as much as it does me.